A girl was walking down the sidewalk doing what girls do best: talking on the phone. She was yelling and screaming at the person on the other end of the line, who I can only assume to have been her boyfriend. At first, I thought it was rude to be talking about such a private situation while there were so many people around enjoying their day, but I then I stopped to consider that maybe her way and timing of expressing her anger was part of the reason why she was arguing with her significant other in the first place.
Expressing anger in public can be harmful to relationships. It's not only disrespectful to the people in the surrounding area, but also to the partners involved in the quarreling. An article from ehow.com gives a few steps on how to improve your relationship by avoiding the display of your problems in public.
1. Before you speak, stop and think if what he or she is doing will matter in 30 minutes. If the no, bite your tongue. Wait for some privacy before letting it all out.
2. Remember your partner is human. Let the issue go. If it bother you when you get home, then address it there.
3. Avoid controversial issues while talking in public. Without dangerous conversation, arguing can be forgotten.
4. Count to ten before continuing an argument. It takes two people to argue; be the one to prevent it.
5. If all else fails and your partner wants to keep making a scene, walk away. Wait for your partner to calm down, then discuss the issue in a more private setting.
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